Focus on your partner, where are they coming from, what are they struggling with. Some of the biggest roadblocks to a couple’s ability to connect is simply not being aware of their partner’s world. The focus of this challenge is to break out of your bubble and take a peak into their world. Whatever they share (even if it is about you), try not to fix it. Simply be a sounding board and let them talk. You can offer support by praying for them or offering to do something for them to let them know that you ‘hear’ them and are there for them.